
Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist: Sex & Relationship. Couples Therapy. Clinical Traumatologist. Sexual abuse.
Welcome to my website. I hope that it is going to be informative and helpful enough for you, to enable you to make your next step into therapy.
Psychotherapy provides a confidential, caring and non-judgemental setting that could help you understand and change difficult areas of your life.
I am a specialist in:
Psychosexual and relationship therapy, also known as couples counselling or sex therapy.
Post-affair recovery. Helping couples heal and rebuild their relationship after the disclosure or discovery of an affair.
Treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours and problematic use of pornography, and therapy for partners.
Sexual trauma therapy and EMDR: therapy for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, rape, relational traumas, neglect in childhood and treatment for PTSD.
LGBTQ- specific issues including chemsex, acceptance of sexuality, coming out, body image issues, the trauma of homophobia.
Bereavement and Grief: losing a loved one. Help for the dying. Disenfranchised grief.
Clinical supervision for psychotherapists, counsellors and other health professionals.
My model of psychotherapy is integrative and humanistic. It means that I will use different approaches from different therapeutic models to suit your needs best. I integrate psychotherapeutic modalities such as: Gestalt, Psychodynamic, CBT, ACT, Transactional Analysis combined with specific psycho-sexological knowledge and diverse relationships.
I am based in two Central London locations:
The City (EC1)
Wimpole Street (W1)
Psychotherapy provides a confidential, caring and non-judgemental setting that could help you understand and change difficult areas of your life.
I am a specialist in:
My model of psychotherapy is integrative and humanistic. It means that I will use different approaches from different therapeutic models to suit your needs best. I integrate psychotherapeutic modalities such as: Gestalt, Psychodynamic, CBT, ACT, Transactional Analysis combined with specific psycho-sexological knowledge and diverse relationships.
I am based in two Central London locations:
NEW: I am delivering a Couple Weekend Workshop in Hampshire in June 2019. Spaces are limited. Book early. For more information, Click Here

Sex & Relationship therapy: Couples Therapy & Individual Therapy.
Sex & Relationship. Couples Therapy. Individual Therapy.
Communication problems in a relationship, including frequent arguments, rows, blaming
Healing after the disclosure or the discovery of infidelity. I am a specialist in this area. For more information, Click Here
Differences in sexual desire within the relationship
Sexless relationship or loss of sexual desire
Lack of intimacy
Learning how to make connections with your partner
Sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, dyspareunia, difficulties with orgasms, etc.
Ending a relationship constructively, with empathy.
It is also known as Couples Counselling or Marriage Counselling. For more information on Couples Therapy, Click Here

Compulsive sexual behaviours & problematic use of pornography.
Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, most commonly known as 'sex addiction'
Frequent preoccupation by sexual thoughts.
Sexual behaviours having a negative impact on life.
Difficulties stopping the sexual behaviours despite negative consequences to life and relationship.
Feeling bad about the sexual behaviours.
Problematic use of pornography
Frequent preoccupation with sexual thoughts and pornography.
Using pornography to the extent of having negative impact on life.
Difficulties stopping the use of porn despite negative consequences to life and relationship.
Feeling bad about the use of porn.
Relationship problems as a result of problematic use of porn.
My treatment for compulsive sexual behaviours and problematic use of porn is holistic, non-shaming with an integrative approach of classic psychotherapeutic methods and modern psycho-sexological interventions.
For more information, Click Here
Problematic use of pornography
My treatment for compulsive sexual behaviours and problematic use of porn is holistic, non-shaming with an integrative approach of classic psychotherapeutic methods and modern psycho-sexological interventions.
For more information, Click Here

Trauma Therapy. EMDR. Sexual abuse.
For more information on traumas, Click Here
I also offer:
Early Intervention trauma therapy: a short treatment for recent trauma to avoid the development of PTSD. For more information, Click Here
Group Trauma Therapy: for survivors of recent or historic mass traumatic event (terrorist attack, natural disaster, sexual abuse in an institution). For more information Click Here

LGBTQ specific issues.

A Space For Men
A Space For Men is a unique 12-week programme to help men explore their masculinity in private and confidential one-to-one sessions.
The programme is not therapy. It is a masculinity coaching programme, although there are many therapeutic elements to it. The programme incorporates psycho-education, behavioural interventions and therapeutic interventions.
A Space for Men is a confidential, non-shaming, non-judgmental space where there is no risk of being criticised for exploring all aspects of masculinity. For more information Click Here
The programme is not therapy. It is a masculinity coaching programme, although there are many therapeutic elements to it. The programme incorporates psycho-education, behavioural interventions and therapeutic interventions.
A Space for Men is a confidential, non-shaming, non-judgmental space where there is no risk of being criticised for exploring all aspects of masculinity. For more information Click Here

Your Sex & Relationship MOT
Many people call a couples therapist or a sex therapist when things are not going well. But what if you could avoid your relationship or your sex life becoming difficult? By keeping in touch with your sex and relationship MOT, you can avoid the crisis point and you may not need to see a therapist to repair things.
Don’t delay, book your Relationship and Sex MOT today for a thorough check-in.
Don’t delay, book your Relationship and Sex MOT today for a thorough check-in.

Intensive Workshops and Coaching for couples
In the busy lives that we lead and with childcare issues, it is sometimes a struggle for couples to find the time to commit to weekly or fortnightly sessions.
This is with this in mind that I offer intensive workshops for couples. Positive change can occur with intensive workshops and it requires less commitment than attending weekly couples therapy.
The Intensive Coaching sessions are suitable for couples of all sexual orientations. For more information Click Here
This is with this in mind that I offer intensive workshops for couples. Positive change can occur with intensive workshops and it requires less commitment than attending weekly couples therapy.
The Intensive Coaching sessions are suitable for couples of all sexual orientations. For more information Click Here
NEW: I am delivering a Couple Weekend Workshop in Hampshire in June 2019. Spaces are limited. Book early. For more information, Click Here

The loss of a loved one. Bereavement and Grief. Help for the dying.
I offer therapeutic support for:
For more information, Click Here
Clinical Supervision
I provide ongoing clinical supervision for psychotherapists and counsellors working in the psychosexual and relationship therapy area and trauma therapy area.
I also offer one-off consultations to psychotherapists, counsellors and other health professionals who do not work in those specialist areas and who need a consultation to work with a particular client/ patient. For more information, Click Here
I also offer one-off consultations to psychotherapists, counsellors and other health professionals who do not work in those specialist areas and who need a consultation to work with a particular client/ patient. For more information, Click Here

I provide therapy in English and in French
I practice in two Central London locations:
The City, EC1. The nearest underground stations are St Paul's and Farringdon.
Wimpole Street, W1. Parallel street to Harley Street. The nearest tube station is Oxford Circus.
Online Therapy: Consultation on FaceTime, VSee or Zoom is also available.
I practice in two Central London locations:
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NEW: I am delivering a Couple Weekend Workshop in Hampshire in June 2019. Spaces are limited. Book early. For more information, Click Here