I am a Course Director for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology).
I am an editorial board member of the journal Sex and Relationship Therapy.
I am a Clinical Associate with Pink Therapy.
I provide clinical trainings internationally on the topics of sex and relationships, trauma and grief.
I hold a full professional insurance.
Being awarded the accreditation with COSRT means that I am a specialist in psychosexual and relationship therapy, having met strict criteria in respect of training, experience, knowledge, ethical standards, clinical skills and commitment to continuous professional development.
Being an Advanced Accredited Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversities Therapist (Pink Therapy) means that I have extensive experience working with the diverse populations of the LGBTQ+ communities. I commit to be of service of the gender, sexuality and relationship diversities and to contribute to the field of psychotherapy to promote ethical practice relating to these populations. I am proud to be a Clinical Associate with Pink Therapy.
Being a full clinical registered member of UKCP means that I have achieved the highest standard of psychotherapy clinical practice.
Being a member of The British Society for Sexual Medicine, The European Society for Sexual Medicine and The International Society for Sexual Medicine means that I keep updated on all the current research and interventions in the field of human sexuality
Being a member of UKPTS (UK Psychological Trauma Society) and ESTSS (European Society for Traumatic Stress Studies) means that I keep updated on all current research and interventions in the field of psychological traumatology.
I abide by the code of ethics and best practice of each of these professional memberships.
I take my continuous professional development seriously. I attend seminars and conferences regularly to keep my knowledge and practice updated.
I have attended seminars with world-renowned specialist in the field of sex and relationship therapy, including Dr Harville Hendrix, Dr Helen LaKelly Hunt (Imago Therapy), Dr David Schnarch (Crucible Therapy), Douglas Braun-Harvey and Esther Perel. I also attend regular professional development on trauma therapy.
How I work
After an initial consultation, an agreement between you and I will be discussed, including a day and time for therapy, which is usually the same every week, although I aim to be flexible with my appointments.
The number of sessions varies, depending on the issues. I am happy to work with an open-ended agreement within which you and I will make regular reviews on how the therapeutic progress is going, and then, when appropriate, we will agree on an ending.
I am also happy to work in 'time-limited' therapy within which we agree at the beginning how many sessions you want. Of course, in order for therapy to be effective, the number of sessions have to be realistic.
Each session lasts for 50 minutes.
The process of counselling and psychotherapy can be challenging at times. But it is through that process that better understanding of yourself can be gained and enable you to make positive changes.
Individual Therapy: The initial consultation lasts for 50 minutes and sessions after that lasts for 50 minutes each.
Couples Therapy: The initial consultation lasts for 50 minutes and each sessions after that lasts between 50 minutes and 110 minutes (double session), depending on the presenting issues.
I am bound by GDPR (General Data Protection Regulation).
Read my blog on Psychology Today
I write articles on various topics related to gender, sexuality and relationship diversity for the international blog Psychology Today . The aim of this blog is to offer food for thoughts for therapists and the public.
Silva Neves Blog Website
COSRT: College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
UKCP: UK Council for Psychotherapy
The Hanover Centre
The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology
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The London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
BACP: British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
NCP: The National Council of Psychotherapists
National Centre for Eating Disorders
Science of Arousal
The International Online Sexology Supervisors
The Counselling Directory
56 Dean Street: NHS sexual health clinic
Terrence Higgins Trust
Primary Care Testosterone Advisory Group
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